Few days ago, someone has suicide and this news had become some of the chinese newspapers headline at Malaysia. Commonly, once we become the headline of the newspaper we will feel proud of it. However, this news would forever be the most sad case for most of the Malaysian especially his parents. This case also reveals that most of the Malaysian youngsters fall into the mentality problem. Thus, I would like to share some of my opinions about the mentality problem.
The causes of suicide can be divided into mental and physical problem. In most cases, suicides can be categories as mentality problem. Example of physical problems are physical disabilities such as paralyse due to stroke or incidents, diseases such as AIDS, SARS, financial problems or others. Example of mentality problems are mental disorder, disappointed in love, quarrel with someone, financial pressure or others. All these problems may bring to the suicide's decision if the person do not think carefully.
Actually, all these mental problems can be solved if our mental strong enough and having good Emotional Quotient (EQ). In this case, I would only focuses on suicide problem. Most of us would came out the idea of suicide when we out of idea to solve the problem we faced with. By thinking wisely about the problem we faced with, we may get the proper solution(s). Apart from that, we also seldom think of our siblings' feeling if we use the improper solution(s) to solve the problem(s) especially suicide.
Actually, suicide is not a better solution but it is the most worst solution. Suicide would bring sadness and unforgiving to your family and friends. Suicide is not a relief method but it is a method where you will increase pain and sins to yourself. Your family and friends will remember this moment forever and the scene of suicide would appear in their mind for quite a long time. Sometime, you may not successfully suicide and more worst situation occurs afterward such as become paralyse or coma. This also brought sadness and worries to your family. Even though you had successfully suicide, you still may come across of problems such as stuck in this world and not in the heaven or hell. According to Tao or Buddha, a soul of suicide people will remains in this world until the time to transmigrate has come.
From my understanding towards this explanation of soul, a soul will only have 3 places to live which are Heaven, this world and Hell. Heaven is a place where someone have done enough of spiritual practice so that they are free from the
transmigrate and Hell is a place where someone whose done not enough of spiritual practice so that they are unable to free from the
transmigrate. For those soul that suicide or having accident, their soul would remains at the place where they have the accident. Besides, they would go nowhere because they need to find the scapegoat to replace his/her place and they would repeating the whole process of suicide in a certain period until they found another person to take their place.
To make it easier, we consider the whole process of suicide as a process of bang by a car with the speed of 150km/h and they need repeating this process on a certain period such as every 7 days until they found another person to take their turn. Although they have death and they do not have the feeling of pain or tired anymore, they will still feel horrible and regret for what they did (suicide). Thus, this whole process is a painful memory to them and even though they have transmigrate to this world, they will still have this memory and they may repeat this process again when they reach certain time/ages.
As a conclusion, never thought that suicide would be a good solution and always "Say No To Suicide". Although my thought is a bit of religious perspective, but I do hope most of the youngsters can take this matter as a serious matter and do not ever try to suicide no matter in what situation you face with. Okay, that's all for today. Thanks for your time and hope you guys have a nice day. Please stay tuned for my next post.
